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how to overcome negative thoughtsNegative thoughts can be overwhelming, at times even feeling as if the thoughts are out of your influence. If you find that negative thoughts are affecting your quality of life, there are changes that you can make to ease your mindset. These include a number of exercises and new habits that will make it a little easier to look on the bright side of things. Below are 6 steps for how to overcome negative thoughts.

How To Overcome Negative Thoughts

Target The Source

When you find yourself thinking negatively, take a moment to actually listen to yourself and recognize what the thoughts are. Are they rational thoughts? Often times, we find ourselves automatically thinking things that don’t make sense and we take no time to decide if these thoughts are the truth. Take time throughout the day to actively and positively correct these thoughts.

Throw Your Thoughts Away

Try writing your thoughts down, then throwing them away! One study experimented by having people write down their negative thoughts on paper or type them on a computer file and save it. Then, half of the participants threw the paper away or dragged the file to the recycle bin. The rest kept their thoughts intact. The researchers found that those who threw their thoughts away or deleted them were less affected by those thoughts and felt better about themselves. Try out this exercise yourself to clear your mind of negative thoughts.

Analyze Your Surroundings

Negative thinking is contagious! Take a look around. Who do you spend most of your time with? If you realize that they tend to be pessimistic, consider finding some new friends. It has been found that if you spend time with a pessimistic person, you’re likely to end up thinking that way yourself! However, surrounding yourself with positive, optimistic people can have the opposite effect – so aim for a cheerful crowd.
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